Significant Other = Part 4 of our Intention Wheel™

This is an area of my life that I have learned the most the past 40 years… I learn sometimes how to be in relationship and other times I learn how not to be. I learn these lessons only by being in relationship. Being in a significant partner relationship is not always easy but it is how we learn about ourselves and how we learn to be better versions of ourselves if we want to be. Someone once said to me that she wants to be her best for her family, when she walks in the door, that is her goal, to be the best version of herself. That was such an awesome awareness for me, because so much of the time, It is at home the we settle in and our partners receive the tired version of us, the one that gives less at home and more to work and more to the outside world, but what if we choose to do it the other way around?

I believe that our ‘job’ as a partner is to ‘walk each other home’ in our lives… that is a big responsibility. If we believe that, wouldn’t we want to give our partners a great experience? And if we are committed to that, they would want to give us a great experience. It is in this relationship that we work through all our childhood trauma and drama’s. We recreate it (often unconcously) but if we really strive to look within, look in our mirrors and ask ourselves what we have to learn from being triggered by our partners, we will find most of the time an old hurt that needs healing. If only we could talk about it this way with one another for the sake of healing - together.

So many times, we allow our ego to need to prove our position, the fact that we think we are ‘right’ and this creates a relationship that is based on our egos needs to prove something and positions us AGAINST our partners… I believe, as partners we need to stay on the same side of the table as we face our challenges as a team. This is not always easy. But it helps in the perspective of couples being a team together.

This is what I believe being in a significant partnership can be about - making it the safest and coziest part of our lives. In order to create this it takes two people who want to commit to that level of connection, intimacy and challenging conversations in order to heal, grow and live an extraordinary life together. To me, that is joy, that is love, that is partnership, and that is home.

What does it take to get there? Connect with us and let’s talk! Reach out as we are adding a new offering for couples to manifest together! ❤️❤️